{"id":1205,"date":"2021-08-13T20:04:30","date_gmt":"2021-08-13T20:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/?p=1205"},"modified":"2024-05-05T21:28:56","modified_gmt":"2024-05-05T21:28:56","slug":"1205","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/?p=1205","title":{"rendered":"Changes in Friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"gb-grid-wrapper gb-grid-wrapper-0677f9e8\">\n<div class=\"gb-grid-column gb-grid-column-829a158f\"><div class=\"gb-container gb-container-829a158f\"><div class=\"gb-inside-container\">\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this clip, a Black woman shares how she has begun to talk more about race, setting more boundaries, and advocating for her experiences with her white friends. She describes how one of her white friends tried getting her to approach a parked police car and ask the officers why they were there. Earlier in her life she might have simply gone along with what her friend said, but in this situation, she was more intentional about saying no. She has begun to be more open about her experiences and engaging in conversations with her white friends about how her experiences are different from theirs because of race. While this has created some tension for some of her friendships, being able to share her life as a Black woman is a liberating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve been able to gently bring up that I have a completely different experience and race is a big part of it<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"gb-grid-column gb-grid-column-d149977b\"><div class=\"gb-container gb-container-d149977b\"><div class=\"gb-inside-container\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-500x500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22-800x800.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ip.ccde.com.uw.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Clip-image-cards-22.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"100%\" height=\"300\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\" allow=\"autoplay\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?url=https%3A\/\/api.soundcloud.com\/tracks\/1107126118&#038;color=%23ff5500&#038;auto_play=false&#038;hide_related=false&#038;show_comments=true&#038;show_user=true&#038;show_reposts=false&#038;show_teaser=true&#038;visual=true\"><\/iframe><div style=\"font-size: 10px; color: #cccccc;line-break: anywhere;word-break: normal;overflow: hidden;white-space: nowrap;text-overflow: ellipsis; font-family: Interstate,Lucida Grande,Lucida Sans Unicode,Lucida Sans,Garuda,Verdana,Tahoma,sans-serif;font-weight: 100;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/uw-communications\" title=\"UW Communications\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">UW Communications<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/uw-communications\/changes-in-friendships-1\" title=\"Changes In Friendships\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;\" rel=\"noopener\">Changes In Friendships<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Black woman shares how she has begun to talk more about race, setting more boundaries, and advocating for her experiences with her white friends. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1206,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[263,53],"tags":[149,243,234,31,68,244],"class_list":["post-1205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-black-in-seattle","category-black-women","tag-communication","tag-interracial-frienships","tag-interrupting-privilege","tag-interruption-action","tag-white-allies","tag-white-friends","infinite-scroll-item","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.8 - 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